Biblical Maternal Images for God

Mother's_day_udit1 from Wikimedia Commons

Mother’s_day_udit1 from Wikimedia Commons

Mother’s Day makes me think about God’s maternal side. Christianity has been guilty of a patriarchal history that has been oppressive of women. Our conception of God as masculine, e.g. God as Father or King, certainly contributes to our slide into patriarchy. Although written in patriarchal contexts, the Bible itself does not refer to God exclusively in masculine metaphors. There are, albeit few, feminine metaphors used to describe God in the Bible. In this post, I want to highlight the maternal or motherly metaphors used.

God as Mother Bird & Mother Bear

One of the common images is God as a mother bird sheltering her children under her wings. We see this in Ruth 2:12 – “May you be richly rewarded by the LORD, the God of Israel, under whose wings you have come to take refuge.” (All references are from Today’s New International Version.) The Psalms used this imagery a number of times:

“Keep me as the apple of your eye; hide me in the shadow of your wings.” (Psa. 17:8)

“… I will take refuge in the shadow of your wings until the disaster has passed.” (Psa. 57:1)

“He will cover you with his feathers, and under his wings you will find refuge …” (Psa. 91:4)

Jesus picks up these images when he laments over Jerusalem:

“Jerusalem, Jerusalem, you who kill the prophets and stone those sent to you, how often I have longed to gather your children together, as a hen gathers her chicks under her wings, and you were not willing.” (Matthew 23:37; Luke 13:34)

These images paint God as a protecting and sheltering God for his people. But a variation of this image paints a God who also pushes his children to be independent and to grow stronger. Mother eagles are known to teach their young ones to fly by deliberately pushing them out of its nest but catching them before they plunge to their doom: “[God] guarded [Jacob] as the apple of his eye, like an eagle that stirs up its nest and hovers over its young, that spreads its wings to catch them and carries them aloft.” (Deuteronomy 32:10-11)

Before we claim that the Bible only reinforces stereotypes of motherly warmth and care with these images of God, check out Hosea 13:8 – “Like a bear robbed of her cubs, I will attack them and rip them open,” says the Lord. Here, we see that the maternal instinct to protect the children can produce wrath as much as warmth. Beware the fury of a mother! No sentimental mother-image here.

God as Human Mother

Of all the prophets, Isaiah seems to be the fondest in painting God as an actual human mother as these three verses attest:

“For a long time I [God] have kept silent, I have been quiet and held myself back. But now, like a woman in childbirth, I cry out, I gasp and pant.” (Isa. 42:14)

“As a mother comforts her child, so will I [God] comfort you; and you will be comforted over Jerusalem.” (Isa. 66:13)

“Can a mother forget the baby at her breast and have no compassion on the child she has borne? Though she may forget, I [God] will not forget you!” (Isa. 49:15)

That last verse is one of my favourite verses for use in the assurance of forgiveness in a worship service. I like it for its compassionate and faithful portrayal of God but also because it is one of the few feminine images of God that I can use in a service. It reminds the congregation that God is beyond gender; the gender pronouns are simply metaphors to help us understand God who is always beyond our full understanding. As theologian Lynn Japinga wrote, “Language about God should help us to understand and encounter God, but we should not confuse the reality of God with the limits of our language.” (Feminism and Christianity: An Essential Guide, Abingdon: 1999, p. 64)

I know there are many conservative Christians who are uneasy with using feminine images for God. But using female metaphors for God is not a radical feminist innovation as the biblical passages above show. It is also part of early Christian history. Here, I refer again to Japinga:

In the second century Clement of Alexandria mixed his metaphors in his description of Christians nursing at the breast of God the Father. Medieval mystic Meister Eckhart described God’s activity: “What does God do all day long? God gives birth. From all eternity God lies on a maternity bed giving birth.” (Feminism and Christianity, p. 65)

But Never Called Mother God (updated section)

It is true, however, that despite these maternal images, the Bible never used the feminine gender for God, and never called God “mother”. In an ancient patriarchal culture, it is not surprising that the ancient Hebrews used masculine pronouns for God. But I don’t think that was to suggest that God has a masculine gender.

According to the Hebrew scholar Samuel Terrien the reason why the ancient Hebrews never called God “Mother” was that “they reacted against the allurement of the Mother Goddess cult because they somehow sensed the difference between true divinity and deified nature.” (Till The Heart Sings: A Biblical Theology of Manhood and Womanhood, Eerdmans, 1985, p. 60) According to Terrien, ancient mother goddess worship, unlike certain modern-day revivals, was never about empowering or glorifying women. It was about glorifying Nature, with a capital N. It was born not from a veneration of female humanity but rather born from a confusion of the divine with nature; in essence, Mother Earth was worshiped as Mother Goddess. Thus, all that are primary issues with nature, i.e. fertility, sexuality, life, health and death, were associated with the ancient Mother Goddess cults. These religions tend to merge sex with religious ecstasy and economic security (agriculture and husbandry). It is not surprising, then, that many of their religious rituals involved sexuality, even temple prostitutes.

Hence, the Old Testament’s refusal to call God “mother” was not a misogynist act. It was an attempt to emphasize God’s transcendence over nature and to steer away from the ancient goddess religions that over-emphasized divine immanence in nature. Neither was calling God “father” a glorification of human fathers or males but rather, the Old Testament consistently merged the images and metaphors of the fatherly God with motherly compassion and love, as the maternal images above suggest.

Something True About God

Mother’s Day is as appropriate as any occasion to recapture the biblical maternal images for God to help us see further truths about God. “People described God in feminine terms, not because God is actually a woman, but because feminine or maternal traits say something true about God and about their experience with God.” (Japinga, Feminism and Christianity, p. 66) The same must be said of masculine and paternal images for God. We must not confuse these metaphors with God’s reality.

  • What do you think of God as a mother?
  • Have you heard it used in a worship service?
  • How did you feel or react?
  • Do you feel uneasy about such images or terminologies?
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About Shiao Chong

Editor in Chief of The Banner, official magazine of the Christian Reformed Church (CRC). Formerly CRC Campus Minister serving at York University in Toronto, Canada. (All postings here are my personal opinion and does not necessarily represent the views of the CRC or of The Banner.)
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15 Responses to Biblical Maternal Images for God

  1. sjmharrison says:

    Thanks for your helpful post! A couple of years ago I decided to try a one-person experiment to see if I could *finally* change my God image to include the feminine. For about a year, I read only devotional literature that used feminine terms for God. I can now call God “Mother” with the freedom to engage God’s unconditional love for me in a new way. My blog explores various questions Christian often have about feminine language for God, as well as my own experiences with calling God Mother: http://www.mothergodexperiment.com.

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    • Shiao Chong says:

      Thanks for sharing your experience! I am glad the post is helpful to you. And thankful that you are experiencing God’s unconditional love. God’s blessings on your spiritual journey.

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  2. Just today (22 Dec 2016) while reading.’A Divine Invitation’ by Steve McVey, (whose books I recommend to every Christian but start with either ‘Grace Walk’ or ’52 Lies Heard in Church Every Sunday, [and why the Truth is so much better]), did I read about the Maternal nature of our Lord and was amazed at all the correlations between what I read and the way my own mother was.

    I’ll never read about Jesus or the Father embracing me in their outstretched arms without seeing and feeling that embrace like my Mom used to hug/hold me. I suppose I always saw His maternal nature in my sub-conscious mind but today was the first time I included that thought in my awareness of the Lord.

    As Shaio Chong wrote in this piece, our God is beyond gender but in order to more fully understand His eternal nature as loving and merciful we must see Him as a mother holding her child and also being protected by Her/Him like a mother bear with cubs.

    I want to add this verse from Zephaniah 3:17, NLT, “For the LORD your God is living among you.He is a mighty Savior. He will take delight in you with gladness.With His love, He will calm all your fears.He will rejoice over you with joyful songs.” That sounds like a mother’s love to me.

    A very well written and researched article Shaio and greetings. This is the first time as well for my ‘meeting’ you in your writings. Another coincidental thing is that the book, Grace Walk, I mentioned above, has a similar picture on its cover as the one you have at the top of this, your page.

    Have a safe and joyful Christmas to everyone as we celebrate the birth of our Savior, Christ Jesus!

    Michael Tinsley

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    • Shiao Chong says:

      Thank you very much Michael! Thanks for sharing your story with us about your mother’s love. Also, thanks for the additional bible reference.
      Blessings and Merry Christmas to you too!

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  3. Hello again! The person who shared this was Christine Sine. Today she posted a video for Mothers Day that echoes it and I thought was just beautiful. So I went to her page. You might enjoy this as well. Maternal Images of God – a video and a prayer

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  4. This is so important! Thank you. I just saw this re-posted on CBE and want to also mention Psalm 131:2. “Like a weaned child with its Mother…” Don’t think I’ve ever heard a sermon on this, but stumbled across it one day during the painful struggle for gender equality in the CRC. It fell on my heart like a lullaby and continues to mean a lot to me. This morning, after reading your article, I posted my echo of it and thought I’d share. http://annaver.blogspot.com/2015/05/mothers-day-lullaby.html

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    • Shiao Chong says:

      Thanks JoMae! Thanks for sharing too. I read it and it was nice.
      Did you say you saw my post re-posted on CBE? Is that Christians for Biblical Equality? Was this on their Facebook page? It has been re-posted in a number of places. This post seems to have touched a nerve for women.
      Blessings to you.

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      • Yes it was on their facebook page yesterday. With 11 likes. I’m not surprised. I shared it as well on mine – although most of my FB friends do not share my yearning for inclusive worship.

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  5. Thank you for posting this. It has encouraged me. I recently experienced God in this way, but I have never heard anyone else speak about this except psychics and spiritualists who worship a goddess. The “goddess concept” offends my traditional upbringing, yet I cannot deny that God’s feminine side exists. I recently wrote about this on my blog. I fear most of the Christian community would consider it heresy to refer to Her instead of to Him when discussing God. But why? I know it makes me uneasy because of my upbringing, but honestly – what’s the big deal?

    William P Young made Papa a woman in The Shack. In the story God tells Mack He did that on purpose because Mack had such resentment against God as Father. So he switched genders to get through to him. He also portrayed the Holy Spirit as a woman. This book was considered “controversial” because of these two depictions of God as female.

    Is it possible we are missing out on some great truths because we refuse to consider the feminine side of God? Lord, have mercy on us. Reveal Your Glory and Your Goodness to us, even if it offends our paradigms. 🙂

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    • Shiao Chong says:

      Thanks for comment.
      I am glad that it could be of help and encouragement to you.
      You are on to something there in terms of how God’s revelation might offend our cozy paradigms. In fact, if our paradigms are shaped by our fallen natures, then it is to be expected that they get shaken by God’s truths.
      Blessings.

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